Hi Mike,
I had the same problem on my way to Queensland and it turned out (I hope) to be the Touring pack as it hangs out behind the rear axle, I was passing two Road Trains (Semi's with 2 or more trailers) at way over 100 mph and still have wobble (or known here as tank slap) nightmares, luckily I had spare you know whats in the touring Pack...
Today, I purchased a Truetrack stabiliser (Part #20-00-09) from the US and will happily install it myself to ensure that it is correctly fitted.
My love is an 2010 FLHXSE in Spiced Rum, and whilst I don't normally travel at these speeds, if emergencies dictate it, I want to be able to do so safely.
This may or may not be the answer, and I would appreciate anyone's comments, that have one fitted, and the cost is a pittance where life is at risk..I believe they have addressed the problem on the 2012's...if so, nice of them to let us know there was a problem in the first place (if indeed so)