I hear you. Nor will I. Not knowledgeable about other piggyback type tuners and maybe they also require tapping into the bike's harness. 
Better piggy back devices like Power Commanders, will come with matching plugs to plug one end into the harness and the other end into the ECM. This is the best way to do this, IMHO. Cutting MY, or a customers, harness? No way Jose!
And... IMHO, again, I do NOT feel an add on box should ever be installed on any bike newer than an 10 touring anyways. Add ons were from a time long past when dinosaurs roamed the earth and flash tuners were just a blink in the sky.... Do you still use Win95? Same thing... there is better tech out there than crap that fools an ECU into thinking there are things going on that, in fact, are not. Add ons like PCs were fine up to say about 06. Once we had the O2 sensors and upgraded ECUs... why go backwards and lose the ability to tune so many things? Most riders will normally NOT use most of the adjustments inside of a flash tuner, but... when they ARE needed? Sure is nice that they are there. ANd then, here... is a 'box' that one cannot even adjust? Gimme a break!
We ALL adjust VEs anymore, Pro or DIY. No news there. But... I would be LOATH to give up having the AE adjustable. A LOT of problems come with folks having, or the base maps having, too much AE. Stumbles, surges, etc are just about all related to AE and timing. And even that one all the time used adjustment is NOT available with an add on type box, let alone off of the other things one can adjust, if need be. I have NEVER done a tune up without adjusting AE one way or another.
I can readily remember starting out in 08 with a PC3 on my bike. I went from that, and guessing at the setting, to riding my bike down the road with two laptops, a monitor, a vacuum pump strapped to the passenger board and a set of wide bands AND narrow bands all reporting back, to now.. I have a dyno and it IS a blast.
I can remember viewing things from the OPs perspective, and all that I have learned from that point has convinced me of one thing... if the bike came with O2 sensors from the factory, then spend a couple hundred more and do NOT get any sort of add on box... get a flash tuner instead.
Here is the 'deal' on tuning our bikes... most uninformed guys think of tuning bikes as similar to tuning a car. Some add ons work decently for cars, too BTW!
Our bikes do NOT come with a MAF sensor. Mass AirFlow. Cars KNOW how much air is entering their engines, via that MAF sensor, and can easily adjust. Our bikes use the same tuning scheme, Speed Density, but we HAVE to rely upon tables set inside of the ECM.. and... this is what a flash tuner is all about.
OP? save up for a TTS, a SEPST or a PV. Later on, especially once you learn a little.... you WILL be SO glad that you did.
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