Hey Rufus,
Welcome and keep reading...you will find the majority of the people here do like each other and get together to ride. We bought CVO bikes because Harley claims that its there best bike...and we wouldnt settle for nothing less. I met many members of this site at our gatherings and I havent found one that I didnt like.There were a few that I didnt think I would like from their postings...but was proved terribly wrong upon meeting them. Just hang out and read a little. Hang out at the dealer some and talk to some people about there adventures and bikes. It will help you make you decision for the type of riding you will want to be doing. If you havent riden before take a bike safety course.
Who knows ...a CVO bike,some dark shades,dew rag and leather jacket...and the nerd might be gone? Then agian...maybe not? But the only thing stopping you...is you. Lifes to short...hope to see you at one of our gatherings in the future. I hope to be the first to buy you a beer, coffee, or soda. And I bet you wont meet one you dont like!
DisAir