Thanks for those links Bagger. But I'm still just trying to find a replacement for just the stock black bushing between the inner primary and shifter arm, not eliminate the rear shifter arm. I guess this is not such an easy one after all! I'm surprised at all you OCD maniacs!
Hoist! 
FOUND THEM!
Smooth chrome with a wave washer to keep it from rattling. There are two versions, one as a OEM replacement (what Hoist was looking for) and one that is longer to replace one of the shifter arms.
I checked stock and they only had one so I ordered it. After looking at it if it seems like a decent piece I'll order a dozen or so of them.

Shifter Anti-Rattle Kits For Big Twin
Stop that annoying shifter rattle with this custom spacer and shim kits. Manufactured in the USA, these kits replace the dull finish stock spacer with a chrome plated spacer and wave washer. In addition, these kits reduce pre-mature wear of the shifter linkage, stabilize the transmission shift arm, and also reduce fatigue on the internal shifter spring located in the transmission. Installation instructions included. Fits FLT models and Softail models as listed below.

Part No. 44400 $17.95
Fits all FLT Models 1984 and later with Heel & Toe Shifter.

Part No. 44401 $18.95
Fits FLT models 1984 and later
with toe Shifter only when Heel Shifter has been removed.