There you go... You pinpointed the problem... The common link is the site... Breeds oil leaks and a$$holes!!

Yep that is definitely it.
I know that I have looked in the window of the Service department and seen brand new and slightly used SE Ultras sitting in the shop. This over a little more than a year time frame. I asked why they were there and was told because of engine problems, overheating. seeping oil..... I did not go seeking to see SE bikes in the shop, just natural curiosity had me stick my nose on the glass and look at what was on the other side. No one forced the manager of the shop to tell me what was wrong, but I did ask. A member here with an Ultra with 110 engine has been told by this manager that they have never heard of a problem. mmmmm

Maybe I have a better memory than the manager does. That makes sense actually, since he sees thousands of bikes and i am very interested in the couple of SE bikes. I may remember these cases better.
And Neal, you are right. You built this site out of wanting to talk to others who had a bike like yours, because the HD shops are not all up on our stuff. I know that a HD service department put too much oil in my forks, because they did not read the difference from my bike and a regular Electra glide. Now, I know I have to be very specific in what I ask for and not assume anything. It is OK if you know, sucks to learn the hard way.